Nick Glassett nick_o_glass origin leadership

The Way You Do It Isn’t Right

The way you do it isn’t right. It also isn’t wrong.

The way you do it is the way YOU do it.

That’s because there is no RIGHT. Only right for YOU.

So don’t judge others for the way they do it, because that is THEIR right.

But more importantly, don’t judge yourself.

You’ll see someone that you look up to doing a Youtube video and WISH you could talk like that on camera, or you see an Instagram post and with you could take pictures like that…this silly list goes on and on.

Rest assured

You are doing it the right way for you…


Don’t get caught measuring your success vs others, because it’s CREATIVE KRYPTONITE.

Nothing will stop you in your tracks faster than comparing your work to someone else’s.

Go do what’s right for you. And that’s going to take some testing, but you’ll never know until you do it!

Ready, set MAKE IT!



Dream Job: Turn your JOB into a CALLING

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There’s a myriad of different personalities that you can find at your place of business, but you can always form 2 camps; The ones that would die for the cause, and the ones that are there because that’s where they ended up. The thing that separates them most is that one group loves what they do, and one group does not. The former views their role as a calling, something bigger than the actual job title itself. A great way to make this point is in the difference between, a deli employee and a “Sandwich Artist” or a janitor and a “Master of the Custodial Arts”. Same job, same place, but the role occurs radically different to the ones that find meaning in their work.

Peak performers can exist in both groups, but it’s obvious that the ones that see their job as something special are much more likely to out perform the “clock watchers”. This is because the individuals that view their work as a calling are significantly more satisfied with their jobs, and lives. They’re more engaged in what their doing, leading them to notice things that other’s don’t and go the extra mile doing things others won’t as they embrace the vision of the organization, instead of just checking the boxes in the areas that they are responsible for.

So do you have to luck into your calling, or search it out so you can be happy? Not at all! While that can, and does happen, you can actually craft the role you currently have to experience it as something that is meaningful and satisfying. It’s simple, but does take some courage!

You can add enjoyment to your work by altering how the job occurs to you in your own head. How you think about what the work even is. This concept is the work of Amy Wrzesniewski, a professor of organizational behavior at Yale. The term that she uses to describe it is “cognitive crafting”. Think of it as what you name your title, and what you tell people that you do for a living. Do you say the job title and quote the job description from the HR manual, or do you reply with something almost abstract, and something that you’re damn proud of? An example from professor Wrzesniewski’s study is: I work at a hospital, vs I’m a healer! Consider this a type of litmus test of whether or not someone is currently creating a view of their work that they can enjoy.

A person that does view their role as much more than what the title actually implies will alter the boundaries of the job itself in a way that makes it extremely rewarding. Here’s where that courage comes in. Much of this is actually doing things that can be deemed against the rules. Doing something that is outside your scope of work that adds value to what the company is trying to do. And it doesn’t actually have to be adding, or expanding your workload. It is often more purposeful to trim out, or delegate some of the things that may be defined as “part of the job” but over time you have come to realize aren’t essential to achieving the things that the organization wants done at a high level. It’s not just following the rules, but truly setting out to make a difference in an area that you find passion in pursuing! It’s not just doing what’s asked of you, but crafting it in a way that brings about love and happiness.

A great place to start to find some job crafting opportunities is to use the Pareto Principle, more commonly known as the 80/20 rule. The secret I find is to use it 2 directions, forward and backward…

Forward: What 20% of your actions lead to 80% of your results? What 20% of accounts lead to 80% of revenue? What 20% of products lead to 80% of the sales.

Backward: What 20% of your responsibilities lead to 80% of your problems? What 20% of accounts lead to 80% of your complaints? What 20% of products lead to 80% of workload?

The reason for using it forward and backward is because it can help you focus your efforts on the things that are actually important instead of the things that on appear important. It may be adding something to these areas and expanding how you treat them. It may also be cutting away from the things that don’t cause much positive effect on your area of responsibility. You can then spend the time on the things that matter, bring results, and bring you joy!

Turning your job into a calling will require you to put yourself out there. It will add some risk to your professional life, but it’s an insignificantly small risk compared to the large payoff of loving what you do! To give a little guidance on embracing your vision, and the cause of finding joy and passion in that job, I’m going to leave you with a quote that I love from Tim Ferriss, “Get good at being a trouble maker and saying sorry when you really screw up.”


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Dreams are free: Hustle sold separately.

“All men dream: but not equally. Those who dream by night in the dusty recesses of their minds wake in the day to find that it was vanity: but those dreamers of the day are dangerous men, for they act their dream with open eyes, to make it possible”. T.E. Lawrence

Everyone has aspirations of some kind. After all, no one wakes up in the morning and wants to fail. No one drives to work looking to do a bad job. We all wake up with great intentions, and say to ourselves, “today, I want to make a difference.” That’s the easy part. The free part. A dream is just an idea, and great ideas are nothing without action.

One of the interesting things about being human is that we tend to judge ourselves based on our intentions, not our actions. We live in this fictional world that we create in our heads through self-narration. That little voice in the back of our mind is always talking, and always making judgements. We’re seeing other peoples actions, and judging them for it, some conscious, some sub-conscious. It can be what shirt they have on, to how they should be interacting with their own children. But there in lies the main difference; we judge them based on what they did. When we’re passing the same kind of judgement on ourselves, we pass that judgement based on what we thought, or intended to do. That’s why when something goes wrong, a person will rationalize it as not being the outcome they were intending to cause.

Moving intentions to action is where the ultra-successful differ from the rest of the world. It’s a fear thing. People are worried they’ll look bad if they try and fail. What if someone offered to pay you to pursue something you dislike (even LOATH) for years and years? Would you say yes and take the money or take a small risk to go for your dreams? Let me ask that differently; If the pain and frustration of not realizing your dreams after you gave it your all is a 3 out of 10, being as you really don’t risk THAT MUCH to begin with, then what on earth are you doing slugging your way through something that you dislike which is a seemingly-permanent 8 out of 10??? I’m not quite sure why, but it’s for some reason easier for people to do!

If you did go for it…

So let’s say you went all in tomorrow on following your dreams, and you failed. What’s going to happen? So if you have to quit your job to pursue your dream, you’d be without income temporarily. I’m going to make a wild prediction that you could get rehired into the same field, at a competitor, and actually make more money! At the least, you’ll be able to get a job. Now if you happen to enjoy your job,  and/or you don’t have to quit your job to get started, what’s holding you back? Right, you don’t have the time. Such a poor excuse that we all just accept. I challenge you to list three things that you did yesterday that didn’t improve your life. Ok now remove those from your day, how much time do you have?

So assume you failed, and had to get a job that you’re not passionate about to pay the bills. Imagine the story you’d get to tell your co-workers of chasing  something that you love! You’ll earn some serious respect! I’m also willing to bet that you’re a bit stubborn too, so it wouldn’t be a “fail” as much as a “regrouping”!

Now imagine you retire from your miserable career that you suffered through for 40 years, at the pain level of 8 out of 10 and the whole time you made excuses of why you couldn’t chase your passion. Man that’s a long prison sentence!

Next week I’m going to talk about if you fall into the category of already pursuing your dream, and not making the progress you want.